Does the "I do not consent" post work?

Short answer: no, but your instinct was right. Here's why the post can't do the job, and what can.

You were right to object. Your name, address and phone number are your information. Wanting a say in who sells them is reasonable.

The post you may have seen

Lots of people have posted something like "I do not give permission to use my pictures or information…" on Facebook. It's often shared by caring people who want to protect their friends.

Why it can't reach the people selling your details

What actually works

  1. Send your "I do not consent" to each site

    Ask each people-search site to remove your listing, through its own removal process. Our free opt-out guides show you how for some of the best-known sites.

  2. Use the law where you have it

    California and a growing number of states have privacy laws that require these sites to answer removal requests. In other states the request is a polite one. Many sites honor it anyway, but some don't.

  3. Keep checking

    Sites buy fresh data and can list people again. Check back every few months.

  4. For Facebook itself, use Facebook's own settings

    Removing yourself from people-search sites doesn't change what Facebook does with your account. That's done in the privacy settings inside Facebook.

Don't just post it. Send it.

Free My ID sends your "I do not consent" to the companies that actually sell your name, address and phone number, through each site's own removal process (a formal legal request where a state privacy law applies), and keeps checking that they did. It's free, and it runs on your own computer.

Pass it on

If a friend shared the post, you could share this page instead. No need to correct anyone: they had the right idea. This page's address is https://freemyid.org/i-do-not-consent/

Share this page on Facebook (opens Facebook; nothing is sent until you click)